9 Keys to passion & intimacy
Unlock the passionWhat makes a life a good life? Some might say reaching the top of the corporate ladder. Others might say living in their dream city or owning a home. But creating an extraordinary life isn’t about working long hours or making a lot of money – it’s about personal relationships.
As Tony says, “The quality of your life is the quality of your relationships.” Humans are highly social. Working together in pairs and groups is in our DNA. And the benefits we get from friendships and love are real: they’ve been shown to lower stress and even increase lifespan. Our personal relationships provide the support we need to thrive – and when we create a strong network, they can also provide opportunities.
What is a personal relationship?
The personal relationship definition can vary depending on the context. But personal relationships are always based on the connections that hold together your life. Coworkers bond via mutual experiences. Friends often bond by shared interests, while family is connected by emotional bonds. Your intimate relationship with your significant other is also based on emotional bond – but one that goes deeper. People often use words like “soulmate” and “kindred spirit” to describe these personal relationships, hinting at an almost cosmic connection.
Your personal relationship definitions are also constantly evolving. Coworkers can become friends. Old friends can fall out of touch. Intimate bonds can get even deeper. This works in your favor – you’re always able to create new personal relationships that benefit you and leave behind the ones that don’t.
Choose wisely: According to Dunbar’s number, humans are only able to maintain close personal relationships with about 150 people. While you can have 500 acquaintances and recognize up to 1,500 people, your meaningful network is limited to 150. People with strong networks know how to choose those relationships wisely. They and use the law of attraction to bring in positivity and eliminate negativity.
