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Problems are Gifts

Posted by: Team Tony

So many of us have been hurt by someone we loved. Someone we trusted. Someone who was supposed to protect us. Then we blame them for everything bad that happens after they’ve hurt us.

What if we started thanking them for all the good? What if we looked at every struggle as a chance to find our magic? A chance to make our life extraordinary?

At the age of 23, Siri Lindley was disowned by her father after coming out as gay. For decades, she blamed him for everything bad that went on in her life. At Date with Destiny, Tony helped her reevaluate her relationship with her father and see the gifts her struggle has brought her.

Through this event, Tony reminded Siri that the people who hurt us, shape our whole future. If we’re going to blame them for all the bad things that happen, we have to blame them for the good too.

Siri realized her drive, her determination, her willingness to fight to be all she could be was because of her father. It was her struggle that made her who she was – the good and bad. It was what made her extraordinary.

“You have to come here. You have to – it’ll change your life! And, even if you think you don’t need it, you arrive and you need it!”

Watch the video below to watch here more of Siri’s breakthrough 


Imagine what life would be like if you learned how to blame effectively? If you learned how to turn problems into gifts. How to discover the many ways that your challenges help you become your strongest, most beautiful self. Join Tony Robbins at Date With Destiny, his most-exclusive and life-changing live event, and you won’t have to imagine any longer


Embark on a journey – 6 days LIVE with Tony Robbins – in a supportive environment of total immersion! At Date With Destiny you won’t simply discover who you are,  you will decide and create your own life-changing experience. Gain the right tools and mindset to see how problems can become gifts. Discover the ways your life is happening for you – not to you. Realign with what’s most important and spark confidence to follow your dreams and design your life!

Don’t wait another minute to change your life, your new destiny awaits!


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