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How to create a personal growth plan
There’s a simple way to get organized and take control of your life
Personal growth should be a lifelong commitment for all of us. When we commit to a lifetime of learning and being better, we won’t stagnate or become trapped by our limiting beliefs. However, we can’t just say we want to grow and leave it at that. Without clear personal growth goals, we cannot create a clear and effective plan and will likely feel unfulfilled in our efforts.
What does personal growth mean to you? Does it mean becoming a better communicator with your partner? Do you envision professional success? Would you like to adopt a sustainable health diet and get into better physical shape? Do you want to become better at handling your finances? No matter what your vision of personal growth entails, there’s a way to achieve your goals.
Personal growth and success mean something different for everyone, but there are some basic habits that you can tailor to your own life to ensure you continue to grow. By creating a foolproof personal growth plan, you can prepare yourself to tackle any obstacle in the way of your goals and work toward becoming the best version of you possible.
Seven ways to create your personal growth plan
1. Identify what you really want for your personal growth
The first step in developing a personal growth plan is thinking about what you really want – what are the results you crave? What is the ultimate desired outcome for your pursuit? You need to clarify what your personal growth and development is for. Do you want to get promoted at the office? Are you trying to strengthen your romantic relationship? Do you want to feel stronger and healthier?
Once you have a clear outcome in mind for your personal growth, think about your reasons behind the goal. At first glance, you may think it’s just because you want to feel better about yourself and you’re trying to find ways to build yourself up. These are all important factors, but to really take your growth to the next level, you have to dig a little deeper.
2. Discover the deeper “why”
When asking yourself the question, “What are the reasons for committing to my personal growth plan?” you need to challenge yourself to think of a larger “why.” Do you want a promotion so you can better provide for your family? Will a stronger romantic relationship lead to greater happiness and productivity in your life? Does being in better shape allow you to give back to your community more thoroughly? By seeing that you’re driven by factors larger than yourself, you’ll feel more encouraged to take on the task at hand and really commit to that personal growth plan. Your reasons need to be clear and compelling and they need to help you focus on what achieving your personal growth will mean to your way of life. When you do this, you stop pushing yourself toward a goal. Instead, you are pulled toward that goal with passion.
3. Pinpoint obstacles in your personal growth plan
Now you need to take a look at what’s getting in your way. Many people see challenges as obstacles that are keeping them from their personal growth goals when they’re actually opportunities. Take a look at what you perceive as roadblocks on your path and see how you can either remove them or reframe and use them to get you closer to your objectives. For example, you may believe that not having an advanced degree in your industry is a roadblock, but when you’re really honest with yourself, you may see that you don’t have passion for your industry. This challenge is actually encouraging your to take a different path and explore a career that means more to you. You don’t have to choose between passion and profitability in your personal growth plan – when you follow your calling, you can have both.
4. Get the tools and coaching you need
It’s okay to acknowledge that you can’t create a personal growth plan all on your own. Many of the world’s most successful people turn to external tools and strategies when they embark on their path to personal growth. Check out the best personal growth books, turn to stories or quotes you find inspiring or find a mentor who empowers you. You can also work with a personal growth coach who can help you clarify your plan and develop the best strategy to achieve it.
If you can’t access a mentor, identify someone you admire and study their choices. As Tony has said, “If you want to be successful, find someone who has achieved the results you want and copy what they do and you’ll achieve the same results.” How did they find success? How do they approach their daily responsibilities? What path did they take to personal growth? Whether this is someone who’s famous or someone close to you, by using tools and tapping into the success of others, you’ll more easily develop your own path to success.
5. Make sure you’re in alignment with your personal growth plan
There’s more to personal growth than simply setting goals and then working hard to achieve them. Many of us suffer from inner conflicts that lead to self-sabotage. We must first unlock these conflicts and get ourselves into alignment before we can take the next step toward our personal growth goals. Abiding by the law of attraction can help to achieve alignment.
Once you are aligned, you will find yourself taking action that leads to success. You’ll focus on what you really want and know, deep down, that you deserve to have the personal growth and successful life you are striving toward.
6. Write it all down
Keeping track of your personal growth plan in your head is difficult and it’s easy to make little changes and adjustments that keep you from achieving your goals. When you write it down, you have visual proof of your original plan and you can re-read it. Writing down your plan and tracking your progress also helps you increase focus and limit distractions. The world can be a noisy place and it’s very easy for your mind to fill with chatter. Having a written plan turns down that noise and brings you back to center. Some integrative systems like Tony Robbins’ Rapid Planning Method have tracking built in that helps create purpose, maintain momentum and feel an enormous sense of fulfillment throughout your personal growth adventure.
7. Reward yourself for milestones in your personal growth plan
Don’t wait until you accomplish all your goals to celebrate. When you make progress on any part of your personal growth plan, take time to recognize it. You can perform little acts of self-care like getting a massage or treating yourself to some uninterrupted time with your favorite hobby. Increase your enjoyment of the celebration by sharing it with someone else who is aware of your personal growth journey. This increases connection and makes your progress that much more rewarding.
Although the road to change may feel long at the onset, as you keep track of your personal growth over time, you’ll feel inspired to continue. Celebrate small milestones in your personal growth journey, and don’t let yourself become discouraged if you reach a hiccup in your plan. As Tony lays out in The Time of Your Life, it’s crucial to appreciate the work you’ve already put in as you continue on your personal growth journey.
8. Follow through and hold yourself accountable
Keep yourself accountable to your personal growth plan by regularly updating a close friend or family member on your progress. You can also work with a health coach or other type of professional accountability partner who can help you stay on track and modify your plan when necessary. It’s often beneficial for those working on personal growth to partner with another person who is working on their own plan. This allows you to go on the journey together and provide support and encouragement.
Start your personal growth journey today
Everyone has the power to change their lives for the better. Whether you seek further fulfillment in your personal or professional life, the first step is deciding you’re ready to commit to a personal growth plan. With this growth plan, you will never have to compare yourself to others again. This will then lead to clarifying your true reason for wanting to change, seeking out the best tools to get you there and then keeping track of your progress along the way.
As Tony says, “If you do what you’ve always done, you’ll get what you’ve always gotten.” Start making changes in your life today, and you’ll soon start seeing the results you’ve always wanted.
To see which resources you can get started with today, at home, see our Growth Resources page.