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The power of polarity in love

Learn why differences better your bond at Date with Destiny

Posted by: Team Tony

You couldn’t stand being away from your partner at the beginning of your relationship. You thought about them all the time. You were physically near them whenever possible. Why is that? It’s because there was an initial spark, an enormous sense of passion, that was binding you two together.

Over time, you’ve found that that passion has fizzled. You still love your partner, but your relationship is lacking the magnetic attraction it once had. One thing is certain: Love is not enough. You need both love and passion for your relationship to work.

What helps create passion in a relationship? Polarity.

Polarity is the ultimate key to passion. In any successful relationship that has an intimate connection and sexual attraction, there is polarity. What does this mean exactly? Polarity is defined as the spark that occurs between two opposing energies — masculine and feminine. Gender does not affect whether you have masculine or feminine energy. Couples can be the same or opposite sex, but in order for the pairing to work, one partner has to provide the masculine energy while the other brings the feminine. The primary driving force behind masculine energy is working toward a direction or goal, while feminine energy seeks emotional fulfillment and connection.

Has your relationship depolarized? You’re not feeling the connection you used to because both of you have developed the same type of energy, be it masculine or feminine. This can happen in a variety of ways. A masculine partner can become more feminine when they are required to take on the role of caretaker in the relationship, and a feminine partner can become more masculine when they’re tasked with leading the charge in major decisions or confronting stressful situations. When polarities become too similar, passion dies. Now what do you have? In place of what was once a sexy, fun, amazing relationship is now a friendship.

Here’s what Tony has to say:

Whether you want to save your relationship, reignite a lost sense of passion or are single but want to learn how to find the ideal partner, attending Date with Destiny can help you do so. Date with Destiny is an annual six-day event that will help you understand the forces that drive your behaviors and thoughts, including those that affect your relationship.

Gaining clarity

Have you ever held two magnets together? You know that similar energies repel each other, but opposites attract. The same is true of masculine and feminine energies. Two people with similar energies can love each other, but they can never have passion. Couples who attend Date with Destiny learn how to identify and understand what type of energy both people embody. Attending as a single person? You’re still in good company. Date with Destiny can help those looking for love to identify their core energy and how to notice the energy of potential partners. When you know what you’re looking for in a relationship, it’s easier to find someone with compatible polarity and develop passion.

You’ll discuss the power of polarity and the many aspects that define masculine and feminine energy. Tony Robbins and his team will challenge you to look at the current state of your relationship. Is it truly all it could be right now? Why not? If both you and your partner want to make this partnership work, what’s preventing you from doing so? You’ll knock down the walls you’ve built up over time with your partner and gain an understanding of why you do the things you do.

What leads to depolarization?

Think back on your current or past relationships. When did you stop working to create amazing times with your partner, and instead begin falling back on old, happy memories? You’re two completely different people, but at one point in time, you would do anything for each other. At Date with Destiny, couples identify the issues that create pain for their partner. You’ll then learn helpful strategies that allow you to stop causing pain and start creating pleasure. If you’re single, you’ll learn what traits to look for in a long-term partner, and how to sustain a healthy relationship once you’ve found your ideal significant other.

You don’t want to hurt your partner, but you have stopped making them a priority. Date With Destiny will ask you to examine the issues in your life that have caused depolarization. Did a medical scare cause the partner with feminine energy to inhabit a more masculine role in the relationship? Was it a surprising affair that caused the masculine partner to feel unseen and insecure, traits more closely linked to feminine energy? Just because your relationship’s polarity has shifted, doesn’t mean it can’t be helped. This life-changing event will enable you to identify depolarizing factors so that you can make a change for the better.

Sexual attraction

The ultimate expression of a good relationship is sexual attraction and fulfillment. Somewhere along the way, you and your partner stopped feeling sexually attracted to one another. One of the main components of Date with Destiny is examining what’s created this lack of intimacy. For a person with feminine energy, if they feel unseen, feel unsafe or feel that they’re not understood, then there will be no sexual attraction for their masculine partner. Someone with masculine energy won’t feel a sexual tie to their partner if they feel overly criticized, controlled or that their partner is closed off to them. These problems can cause a lot of pain in a relationship. But once you know what’s causing your partner to pull away, you can immediately start working to change your behavior and fix the situation.

Date with Destiny is a transformative event that will change your relationship for the better. If your relationship is lacking polarity, you can learn how to get it back. If you’re single and still searching for your ideal mate, you’ll learn to understand what type of energy you bring to a relationship and how to feel fulfilled long-term. Once you’re clear in your purpose and recognize what’s gone wrong, you can begin rebuilding immediately.

Rekindle the lost spark by attending the six-day event that has already helped millions of people around the world. Reserve your spot today and prepare to watch your relationship change for the better.

Create the love you've always imagined at Date with Destiny